“我们常常在即将开始演讲时，下意识想要逃离，因为害怕讲的不好被人嘲笑；上司交给的新工作，明明很想做好，但是迟迟没有开始，因为害怕做的不好被人否定能力；遇到心仪的异性，多少次擦肩而过，却很难勇气去搭讪，因为害怕开口了被拒绝……”
我们每天都要被这些想法所困扰，在后悔和自责中郁郁不得志。这些“害怕”的背后逻辑是：我还没准备好，先想好怎么做，做足准备工作才能行动，不然失败了又浪费机会，又丢脸。
是应该先准备好，确保万无一失之后才可以出发吗？到底是什么阻碍了我们前进的脚步？希望以下这段风靡全球的励志短片能带我们找到答案：
Your progress lives where your greatest fears lie. The things that terrify you, walk towards those.
你的进步，来源于你很大的恐惧。令你恐惧的事，反而应向它走去。
And the more you are doing, the more you build up confidence. The more you actually stand in the fire of your greatest fears, the more you actually find freedom.
你做得越多，你就会越有自信。你越置身于自己很大的恐惧，你就越会获得自由。
You need to start thinking and behaving, like a game changer. And that means, populating your mindset with the best books, with the best ideas, with the best conversations.
要想改变游戏规则，你需要开始思考和行动。学会用很好的书籍、思想和交流来武装自己的大脑。
Behaving the ways that the most people don’t behave. Again, you wanna have the result that few people have, you gonna start doing things, the very few people do.
做大多数人不做的事。如果你想获得大多数人没有的成就，你得开始做大多数人不会做的事。
Turn off the television, delete the naysayers. Stop gossiping and start producing.
关掉电视，远离负能量。不参与八卦，开始输出。
You become a creator when you write down goals. And you get clear as absolutely when you make them happen.
当你写下自己的目标，你开始成为创造者。当你实现目标时，自会确认自己成为创造者。
So, don’t start to ask how to do it, that is not the first step. First step is to get it down. As you leave the herd and crowd, and perhaps, the cult of mediocrity.
所以，不要问怎么去实现目标，这不是要做的一步。一步是把它做出来。当你远离喧嚣大众，或许，当你远离对平庸的崇拜。
And rise to being a game changer. It’s a very destructive act. And you actually threaten the masses of people around you.
你开始改变游戏规则。这是破坏性的举动。因为你威胁到身边的人。
That is why the visionary was first ridiculed before they were revered. I am sure you gonna experience it. You say, I wanna take my fitness to a whole new level of a world-class.
所以，这也是有远见的人在获得成就被人尊敬前往往被人嘲笑。我确信你也将经历这种考验。你说我想把体能训练到一个先进的新高度。
Or I wanna take my craft to a whole new level of world-class. Or maybe you are raising your gain financially. And then you share with those you love or your friends. And they laugh at you.
或者我想把自己的才能发展到一个先进的新高度。或者我想提升自己的财务收入。你把自己的目标分享给爱人或朋友，他们却嘲笑你。
How many times have we given up a dream because we are mocked up by the people around you?
有多少次是因为身边人的嘲弄，我们就放弃了自己的梦想？
All I am suggesting to you is, when you are laughed at or ridiculed. Or people don’t understand your next level of world class.
我的建议是，当你被嘲笑或讽刺时。或者身边的人不明白你的“先进新高度”。
That just means you got a great dream. That just means you are on the path of growth. So be a game changer. Getting into the game, because when you get into the last hour of your last day.
这也恰好说明你有一个伟大的梦想。这也恰好说明你正在成长。所以，去改变游戏规则吧。投身这场游戏，因为等你到生命然后一刻。
You will be the failures, regretting all those risks you didn’t take. The most common question that has been asking by the people from all walks of life, trying to pursue all types of things.
你会后悔自己因为不敢冒险而成为失败者。各行各业的人常问的问题，他们通常什么都想要。
The ideas have been sitting, hanging, and creeping, at the back corner of their mind. The most common question is:” Am I ready?”
这个问题长久萦绕在他们的脑海。这个常见的问题就是：“我准备好了吗？”
“Am I ready?” How do I know I am ready? How do I know it’s the right time?
“我准备好了吗？” 我怎么知道自己准备好了？我怎么知道什么时候才是正确的时机？
How do I know now it’s the time for me to make the jump, take the lead, to make the move? How do I know “If am I ready?”
我怎么知道这是我应该全力进取的时刻？我怎么知道自己准备好了？
And every single time, no matter who ask me that question, no matter where we are, and I will give the exact same answer, : “No. No, you are not ready. No, you are not ready. No, you are not ready. No, you will never be ready.”
每次，不论何时何地，有人问我这个问题，我都会给出同样的回答：“不，你没准备好…不，你没准备好…不，你没准备好…不，你永远都不会准备好。”
Alright. You will never be ready for the work you gonna do. You will never be ready for the focus you should be committed to.
是的，你永远都不可能准备好自己要做的事情。你永远不可能准备好应有的专注。
You will never be ready for how much you gonna walk away from before you get to where you have to go. You will never be ready to lose more than you win.
你永远不可能准备好在到达目的地前将要坚持走下去。你永远不可能准备好失去的并不会比你得到的多。
You will never be ready for all the people who doubt you, and hate on you, or leave you. You will never be ready for the sacrifice, the struggle and the suffering before you succeed.
你永远不可能准备好应对所有那些质疑你、记恨你，或离开你的人。你永远不可能准备好在成功前所要经历的牺牲、挣扎与痛苦。
Stop asking yourself if you are ready, ‘cos you are not. And start asking yourself:” if you are willing?”
所以，不要再问自己是否准备好了，因为你不可能准备好。你应该开始问自己：“你是否愿意去做？”
Are you willing? Are you willing to put on the work? Are you willing to live in the dirt? Are you willing to give up everything that once you thought they were important, to go after one thing that you truly love?
你愿意吗？你是否愿意开始工作？你是否愿意身处泥泞？你是否愿意舍弃你曾经认为重要的一切，而全力以赴追求你先进所爱？
Are you willing to be doubted? Are you willing to be chastised? Are you willing to have people walk away from you? Are you willing to leave the people that holds you back?
你是否愿意被质疑？你是否愿意被训斥？你是否愿意人们远离你而去？你是否愿意离开妨碍你的人？
Are you willing to live simple, and live, focused and free? Are you willing to take on every challenge that come to your way?
你是否愿意活得简单而有活力，专注而又自由？你是否愿意面对所有摆在你面前的挑战？
Are you willing to box every obstacle, become face to face? Are you willing to pick yourself up when you are too tired to move?
你是否愿意克服所有困难，勇敢面对？你是否愿意在自己疲惫不堪时仍然振作？
Are you willing to keep going no matter what kicks you? If you are willing, to take on whatever comes, to fight through whatever faces you.
你是否愿意不论任何打击都勇敢前行？如果你愿意，接受一切，战胜眼前的艰难险阻。
And go for it.
那么，就放手去做吧。
是时候去寻求突破了，只有不断尝试，经历过的那些失败，铺就了我们通往成功的道路。当迈出一步才发现，那些所谓的恐惧，都是我们自己给的，而不是事件本身有多可怕。不要再让这些多余的担忧，和对失败的恐惧阻碍了你逐梦的旅程！小耐姐与喜爱本文的小伙伴们共勉。
